Tips for talking to your doctor about ED
Struggling to get or maintain an erection? You’re not alone—and talking to your doctor is an essential first step toward finding the right treatment. While discussing erectile dysfunction (ED) can feel awkward, greater awareness and medical advances have made it easier than ever to get help.
Why It’s Important to Talk About ED
ED isn’t just about sex—it can signal underlying health issues that need attention. Your doctor won’t just hand you a prescription; they’ll want to understand the root cause of your ED to recommend the best treatment. Sometimes medication helps, but other times therapy, lifestyle changes, or treating a different health condition is necessary. For example, if you’ve had prostate surgery, pills might not be as effective, and if emotional factors play a role, counseling could be beneficial.
What Your Doctor Needs to Know
Before recommending treatment, your doctor will ask about your medical history, including:
Chronic illnesses or past surgeries
Current medications
Psychological health (stress, depression)
Lifestyle habits (alcohol, smoking, drug use)
Relationship changes or feelings toward your partner
Providing honest and detailed information helps your doctor tailor the best approach for you.
How to Bring Up ED with Your Doctor
Many men hesitate to mention ED, even when it’s affecting their quality of life. To make it easier, try these tips:
Practice your opening line: Rehearse phrases that feel natural, such as:
“I think I might have ED.”
“I’m having trouble getting erections.”
“I want to ask about a men’s health issue.”
Write down your questions: Prepare a list so you don’t forget important concerns during your appointment.
Track your symptoms: Note when ED happens, how often, and any related factors. This will help your doctor understand your situation better.
What if Your Doctor Seems Uncomfortable?
If you sense your doctor is hesitant to discuss sexual health, don’t be discouraged. You can request a referral to a urologist, a specialist experienced in treating ED and other male reproductive health issues.
Take the First Step Today
ED can impact your confidence, relationships, and overall health. But it’s treatable—often successfully. Schedule an appointment with your healthcare provider or a specialist, and start the conversation that can change your life.
Bastion Health offers expert virtual care for men’s sexual health, making it easier to get support, answers, and treatment—all covered through your employer-sponsored benefits.
